tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7237076346702327008.post3967617217885214401..comments2023-10-31T15:02:20.764+00:00Comments on Tears Behind The Smile - A Journey Through Therapy: Therapy - The ReturnUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7237076346702327008.post-92061643477408715802011-01-12T01:43:34.638+00:002011-01-12T01:43:34.638+00:00I was terrified to 'need.' Funny how I did...I was terrified to 'need.' Funny how I did everything to silence even its whimper...throw up, shoot up...cut. Need is huge...The monster inside....I discovered was a child...scared...lonely...crying. hang tight okay...always...in your corner...Nikki (Sarah)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13731200601840020130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7237076346702327008.post-78674990225281963682011-01-11T06:55:09.041+00:002011-01-11T06:55:09.041+00:00I have been wondering these days what 'need...I have been wondering these days what 'need' wants. It feels desperate to me, overwhelming even. I'm also wondering if I let it be what it is and look it in the eye will it become helpful to me? Hard.<br /><br />I am thinking of you...lostinamazehttp://inamaze.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7237076346702327008.post-69663613397821062572011-01-10T14:13:56.078+00:002011-01-10T14:13:56.078+00:00HI WS-
you are brave - still fighting - you have a...HI WS-<br />you are brave - still fighting - you have a need/desire to be well. Keep fighting.<br />Love to you always<br />Gail<br />peace......Gailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11337675996256691215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7237076346702327008.post-16434056808891482972011-01-10T13:48:20.233+00:002011-01-10T13:48:20.233+00:00Hmm, interesting. While I very much understand th...Hmm, interesting. While I very much understand the fear of need - I have it myself - my thinking about it has evolved somewhat.<br /><br />I do not think it something that must be overcome by courage or sheer force of will or power but rather I see need as a facet of normal, human development. We have needs plain and simple. It is part of what makes us human. We have need for love and human relationships and we have need for the other in the context of our relationship with them to hold up their end of that bargain... the need bargain.<br /><br />Courage does not triumph over need but rather courage allows us to look at ourselves understand our need and seek it out in appropriate ways with appropriate people.jsshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02841951364803029201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7237076346702327008.post-3879478076986724512011-01-10T04:01:54.216+00:002011-01-10T04:01:54.216+00:00Need definitely breeds need.
Maybe the monster ...Need definitely breeds need. <br /><br />Maybe the monster isn't as powerful as it once was. Maybe you are stronger. <br /><br />Courage triumphs, though it's always easier to encourage from afar than to practice it yourself.Campbell B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05551039602147935763noreply@blogger.com