Monday 29 March 2010
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... in a space where I am unknown.
CDs In My Car
- Steve Earle - Copperhead Road
- Bebo Norman - Between The Dreaming and th Coming True
- Shawn Mullins - Live at the Variety Playhouse
- Drive By Truckers - The Dirty South
- Nanci Griffith - Late Night Grande Hotel
- Counting Crows - Saturday Nights, Sunday Mornings
- Garth Brooks - Greatest Hits
- Sugarland - Enjoy The Ride
- Tim McGraw - Live Like You Were Dying
- Casting Crowns - Lifesong
- Counting Crows - Recovering the Satellites
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Just take care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteSmall can be safe, if you are taking care of yourself. The largest prey can huddle up small, but if it isn't strong enough to run away, it's size is of no benefit. Praying for you, sweetie.
ReplyDeleteWanda,
ReplyDeleteYou too.
AND
please don't feel that you should be writing on this, or any other blog.
You don't have to give in order to receive.
xx
Hi Lily,
Thanks. Your words made me think.
x
Alone. I know that feeling.
ReplyDeleteAnd reaching out - and being met.
A risk.
Pays off, though. Sometimes.
Hi
ReplyDeleteI used to believe that small was so vulnerable - actually, I think I still believe that. We all come away or toward such things with our own perceptions. Trust yourself and know that despite everything you are taking care and working through.
Love you
Gail/Annie
peace.....
spirit arms around you, friend . . . . .
ReplyDeletewith much love . . . .
Lis
I can relate I used to be small and strong nevertheless. Strong in enduring but not strong in fighting for myself. Now I am small but fighting for myself. That I call advancement. Love you
ReplyDeleteoh man! what a perfect image
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